Saya dah nak kawin


Saya dah nak kawin...
Eh, silap, sepupu sy yg dah nk kawin... haha, jgn marah... and i am the penyepit atau dlm bhs omputihnye bridesmaid. Skrg musim cuti sekolah mmg ramai mendirikan masjid. Alhamdulillah...
Klau cakap psal kawin, smua org excited... knp ye? hurmm... (-_-)?
Dh habis cousin2 perempuan yg laen kawin, so biasalah ada soalan cepu2 cemas time kenduri atau majlis2 lain... sabar jalah wahai hati...
Actually, bukan susah pon nk jawab. Jawablah, 'insyaAllah tahun depan...' tp tk tahu tahun bila =p... ada kawan gtau idea camni.

Favourite Question, biasanya ada yg direct trus dan ada jgk yg tersirat...

Gaya 1: Kamu ni bila lagi?
Gaya 2: Bila nk kawin?
Gaya 3: Yg ni tak lama dh kot?

Well, to singles out there, especially perempuan mcm sy ni, don't worry too much...
pening jgk pikir psal kawin2 ni, dh la xde boyfriend. Huh, boyfriend? Ape kaitan? Sebenarnya nk kawin x perlu ada boyfriend pun, ada calon sudah cukup...
Oooo, kena cari calon la ni. tapi sy pompuan mcmn? pompuan pon boleh merisik lelaki =). ada berani? ce try ce try =p ....
Nk try silakan. Tapi make sure awak tu dh ready, bukan boleh main suka hati je, nmpk hensem trus rasa sesuai... ops, bahaya tu...
Sort your priorities girls... Dr apa yg sy dh blajar la (dan sdg bljr lg), sblm kawin ni kena bersedia dulu. Bersedia mcmn? Antara yg pntg:

1. Refresh your relationship with Allah.
2. Polish your basics. *refer to basic as a Muslim.
3. Refresh your relation with family esp parent.

Make sure ready physical dan mental, kawin bukan tuk suka2 je. Marriage has a bigger purpose... Through marriage you mould the future generation and you have to mould them to be a great nation, a great ummah that will uphold Islam as the way of life. If you as parent died and you leaves behind children who are too absurd with this world sampai lupa nk doakan parent sendiri, then u are in a great lost man...

Ok, kembali kpd topic nk kawin, Don’t rush into marriage but get marry when you are ready.... Klau kita jmp org yg kita suka, doa banyak2 kat Allah. Doa ikhlas dari hati sendiri... 'Ya Allah, jika dia jodohku, maka Kau bukakanlah jalan jodohku dan kau permudahkanlah, jika sebaliknya, kau berikanlah yg lebih baik untukku, hanya padaMu aku bertawakal'... Klau x jmp lg, doa lagi bnyk2. Mintak parent doakan skali, terutama mak, doa ibu tuk anak mmg powerful.

Dalam sibuk mencari jodoh, jgn lupa cari yg laen jgk. Mcm dlm gambar kt bawah ni... Until next time....



* Mencoret2 diblog setelah penat memerah otak siapkan projek tp x dpt output yg diingini lg.uwaaa...

2 comments:

rosnani said...

alu cik farah..bertemu kita di blog..
i pun xkawen lg..jgn riso, u awek muda..
3 tahun lg utk mencari..heee

SITI FARAH said...

awet muda la sgt kan. haha. 3 thn? lmbt sgt tu. mak aku soh kawen thn dpn tp dia soh cr sndr. adoi... ada calon dak? mai nk bekenalan =p

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